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September 2025 Back-to-School Tech Planning
New York State phone-free-school law is in effect statewide
Fieldston is implementing a phone-free campus in January 2026
Increased Wi-Fi and Internet Filtering
Teachers can monitor and restrict student internet usage
ECFS is researching Artificial Intelligence
Install a landline
Stock up on board games and card games
Subscribe to newspapers and magazines for kids
Arrange more screen-free playdates/sleepovers
Build more autonomy and freedom in the real world
Please contribute your suggestions for the best no-tech and low-tech options
Neuroscientist reviewed the data on screen exposure and consequences on kids.
Suggestions
Target no screen time, if you can
Under 30 min/day is okay, no detectable negative effects
Between 30-60 min/day, drawbacks emerge, but seem small
Simple Targets
Under 12: 30 mins a day or less
12-18: 60 mins a day or less
Additional Guidelines
No screens in the bedroom (at night)
No screens in the mornings before school (incl. on bus)
No screen time 90 minutes before bed
Ask the ECFS community for feedback (use our WhatsApp chat)
Important to have three levels of controls:
Device settings (iPad, MacBook, etc.)
App-level parental controls (see examples)
If you are already using SnapChat, three important suggestions:
Know your child’s Snap password
Turn off Snap Maps
Turn off “Quick Add” / “Find Friends”
For more information: https://www.ethicaltech.net/resources/parental-controls
And the ECFS Tech Team can assist : help@ecfs.org
Set a family media plan to document all of your goals and agreements around screen time.
Family Checklist (coming soon)
Short Family Contract (coming soon)
Videos/Movies To Watch
Articles To Read
Roblox’s Pedophile Problem (Bloomberg News)
Scammers Are Targeting Teenage Boys on Social Media (Bloomberg News)
The Facebook Files (WSJ)
Unsafe Online (Bloomberg News)
Podcasts To Listen
Books To Read
New York State mandated phone-free policies in public/charter schools
Fieldston High School going phone-free January 2026
Phone-free Mondays starting immediately as transition
School implemented WiFi filtering and laptop monitoring capabilities
Teachers can monitor/restrict student internet usage
ECFS is researching AI. It appears the school has a cautious approach
2024-25 baseline: 20% no device, 33% other device, 47% iPhone
2025-26 current: 26% no device, 43% other device, 31% iPhone
16% decrease in iPhone adoption
6% increase in no-device families
Students register devices through Magnus system for tracking
#1 - Low-tech alternatives implementation
Landlines seeing resurgence (featured on Today Show)
Board games, newspapers, screen-free playdates
Increased autonomy/freedom for kids instead of phone dependency
#2 - Screen time guidelines (from “Screen Damage” book)
Suggestions from Screen Damage
Target no screen time, if you can
Under 30 min/day is okay, no detectable negative effects
Between 30-60 min/day, drawbacks emerge, but seem small
Possible approach for families
Under 12: target 30 minutes/day maximum
12-18: target 60 minutes/day maximum
Other guidelines
No screens in bedrooms, no screens before school, no screens 90 minutes before bed
#3 - App/media research before allowing
Use community WhatsApp for parent feedback
Several ways to research apps and media including:
Children and Media Australia
Common Sense Media
#4 - Parental controls at three levels
Device level (iPad, iPhone settings)
App level (Instagram, Snapchat, Roblox controls)
WiFi level (Eero, Griffin products for home filtering)
Resources are available on the ethicaltech.net web site
ECFS tech team offers setup assistance at help@ecfs.org
If you have a high school student and have allowed SnapChat, three safety recommendations from Sam Chapman:
Parent must know child’s password
Turn off Snap Maps and Quick Add/Find Friends features
#5 - Family modeling behavior
No-tech dinners when dining out
Parents leave phones in other rooms during family time
Family device agreements with rules for all members including adults
#6 - Family Media Plans
Can you a media plan to memorialize your home approach to technology
Can work for both parents and kids
#7 - Educational content sharing with teens
“Can’t Look Away” documentary (Bloomberg)
Angela Duckworth’s Bates College commencement speech on phone placement
Andrew Huberman podcast on study habits
“Social Dilemma” movie for awareness of attention manipulation
More links are available on the web site
Popular alternatives to smartphones
Sunbeam flip phones for music/basic communication
iPod Touch for WiFi-only music access
Lightphone
Family landlines
Parent experiences shared
Phone-free kids remain socially connected and active
Sheetal’s daughter’s friend envied her flip phone over iPhone complexity
Monthly meeting structure planned
October: Group chats presentation (partnered with Grace Church)
Future topics: YouTube/video games, ed tech, AI, addictive tech awareness
Communication channels
Website updates with more resources
Monthly email newsletter
Active WhatsApp chat for article sharing and parent questions